Sunday- Our Weekly holiday!
At Heritage Fellowship we celebrate our Lord’s Day each week as a delightful holiday for the family of God. The atmosphere of our weekly gathering is intended to be a wonderful family reunion, full of joy and loving concern for one another. Because this is our only service each week, we like to “make a day of it.” Our gathering is age-integrated. That means all ages participate together in worship, Bible teaching and fellowship. Our worship is doctrinally sound and musically appealing to all ages. Likewise, our Bible teachers make every effort to feed all ages on sound, soul-stirring expository preaching. Following our service we host a weekly Shared Meal where we come prepared to show our love for God by the way we love and serve one another. (Visitors are welcome as our guests!) This extended time together once each week accomplishes two things: First, it allows our members to really reconnect with one another. Second, it leaves ample time each week for everyone to “Be doers of God’s Word, and not merely hearers” (JAMES 1:22). Rather than multiply church services, we encourage our members to live a life-style of ministry hospitality: hosting times to pray and worship together, Bible study groups, and organizing “work-parties” for one another. In times of crisis we expect everyone to flex their schedules and squeeze their finances to pitch in and help out by preparing meals, caring for one another’s children and helping one another make it through hard times.
The Great Commission Lifestyle
All this provides the biblical backdrop needed for effective evangelism. Our love for one another “adorns the Gospel.” (Titus 2:10) But living this life-style is a family adventure. In order to serve God effectively as a team of ambassadors for Christ we must equip each family together as a team. Then every home can become an embassy of God’s kingdom—a place where others “taste and see that the Lord is good” (Ps. 34:8). What you are seeing here today is our weekly “support group meeting” for this godly life-style.
Walking with the Wise
“Those who walk with the wise become wise, but a companion of fools will suffer harm” (PROV. 13:20). Many families and churches today are losing their children to the world. This is because they fail to be truly converted to Christ and knit into the body-life of the church. But by God’s grace, at Heritage Fellowship, we are not losing our children. This is partly due to the fact that we do not offer a Sunday School or a Children’s Church. Instead, we put our efforts into equipping our member parents to include their children in their lives at home and in the church. In our services, the children sing the same songs as their parents, hear the same teaching and feel the same awe as God moves among us in the gifts. As a visitor with children, please don’t feel embarrassed if your children seem uninterested. Help them to understand that their eternity is at stake. Train them to enjoy being included. Coach them in worship. Use our Nursing Mother’s/Changing Room (to change diapers and attitudes). This approach is not easy, but it is well worth the effort.
Moving in the Gifts of the Spirit
“Each one has a song, a teaching, a revelation…” (1 COR. 14:26). During our worship time the Holy Spirit prompts believers to build up one another by means of spiritual gifts. This “body ministry” is welcomed, provided it is offered in keeping with the guidelines laid down by Paul in 1 COR. 14:12-19 & 26-35. So, this is how it works. All of our men, ages 13+, are free to speak without prior “screening” by others. This is because, “the head of every man is Christ,” (1Cor 11:2-7). However, all that is said will be evaluated by the leaders and other men of the church as to its faithfulness to the Bible. Paul does not permit women to participate audibly in this evaluation process (see 1Cor 14:31-35). On the other hand, women may move in the spiritual gifts. Phillip had four daughters who prophesied. (Acts 21:9) But, because “the head of a wife is her husband” (1Cor 11:2-7) a wife or daughter must ask her own husband or father for his oversight before addressing the congregation. Our leaders will cover for those whose husband or father is not present. Time may not permit everyone to share. Allow the Worship Leaders to pace the flow of this ministry, and defer to one another.
Devoting Ourselves to the Apostles’ Doctrine
The main course of our time together each week is spent devoting ourselves to the Word of God. We practice Expository Teaching which means we allow the Bible to direct the content of our sermons. We will often spend several months studying a single book of the Bible. During or after the sermon there may be opportunity for the men to discuss the message in the context of the whole assembly. This is not a time for divisive comments, argumentation over words, or “rabbit trails”, but rather to build one another up with the gifts God has given us. We also want to put you at rest about being too concerned with the noise level of your children. We are all in the process of training our children as well and those teaching are very comfortable with the occasional squawk of our little ones
Our Lord’s Supper
Communion is celebrated at the close of our gathering each week. Tables of bread and grape juice are set up where we welcome the believing head of each household (whether male or female) to serve our Lord’s Supper to the believing members of his or her family and guests. Huddle together or slip outside to a quiet place and use this special time to draw closer to God and closer to one another in Christ. Examine yourselves. Confess your sins to God and renew right relationships with one another. Step away to speak privately as needed. Forgive. Embrace. Then partake together. As a visitor feel free to join with a member’s household if you like.
Our Sunday Afternoon Shared Meal & Fellowship Time
“…They were taking their meals together with gladness” (ACTS 2:46). Our Shared Meal (please, don’t call it a “pot luck!”) is much more than a social activity. It is an offering to God that is given to one another in Jesus name. It is our time for making new friends who we trust enough to begin sharing our lives with throughout the week. Expect to be included, but even as a visitor, invite yourself to join another family. Spend our Sunday evening meal and fellowship time in age-integrated activities. Tell an interesting story that illustrates the truth of God’s Word. Enjoy one another’s company. All parents are responsible to know where their children are and who they are with at all times (this won’t be easy!). Though your family doesn’t have to stay together all the time, please keep your family members from drifting away into age-segregated groups. Welcome all ages into your activities.
“And let our people learn to devote themselves to good works, so as to help cases of urgent need, and not be unfruitful.” (TITUS 3:14) We all have projects hanging over us that need to be tackled. At HF, instead of doing these jobs on our own, we encourage our members to work with one another. Yard work, spring cleaning, painting, remodeling, building projects, landscaping, moving parties, and such can all be accomplished much faster in the spirit of the old fashioned barn raisings and quilting bees. All ages can learn valuable work skills and make new friends while getting the work done. Work parties should be roughly ¼ “party.” Hosts are asked to provide a generous lunch during a break or after the work is completed. Have lunch, make music and enjoy a time of family-inclusive recreation. To schedule a “work party” for any HF member in need of help, our members have only to call one of our leaders.
Storehouse Tithes & Offerings
At HF we teach New Testament “grace giving” under the Lordship of Jesus Christ. In the Old Testament God’s people were required to “Bring the full tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house” (MALACHI 3:8-10). In the New Testament, giving continues to supply the church’s ministers, members, and missions, but it is no longer divesting oneself of money, but rather of investing in far safer opportunities which yield far better returns (Phil. 4:17). Every Christian is commanded to love others and to give in proportion to (i.e. as a percentage of) his actual income (2 Cor. 8:12-15 &1 Tim. 6:17-19). All such giving is to be done cheerfully, from a willing heart, without compulsion (2 Cor. 9:6-8). God does not need our money. He already owns everything. But our fellow members will have need of occasional charity. At HF we “hire them” to get back on their feet. So, find a local church that you can believe in enough to support it with your tithes and offerings. Identify where you would turn for assistance in times of crisis, and then do your part to make it financially strong for everyone.
Our Offering Box
In doing so, please give discretely and without fanfare. At HF we do not collect offerings. Instead, we ask our members to place their tithes and offerings in the Offering Box which is towards the back of the room.
Your Hospitality Budget
“… go to the place that the LORD your God chooses and spend [an annual tithe] for whatever you desire… And you shall eat there before the LORD your God and rejoice, you and your household.” (see DEUT. 14:22-26) The spirit of this Celebration Tithe continues in God’s command that we practice hospitality toward one another. Hospitality, and especially sharing meals, is an offering of worship toward God expressed by loving one another. On this basis we encourage all our members to set aside a generous percentage of income each year for use in celebration. Bring ample quantities of quality food for our Shared Meal each week. Celebrate worthwhile holidays with family and friends. Live well as Ambassadors for Christ. Make your home an embassy of God’s kingdom. Practice hospitality toward new friends. As your income allows, consider taking a ministry vacation or going on a short-term missions trip. Invest a reasonable amount of money each year in rejoicing with your family and friends. By sharing your celebrations you adorn the Gospel of Christ, and allow others to “taste and see that the Lord is good” (Ps. 34:8)
The Purposes of Christ’s Church
Christ’s church exists to worship God corporately, to nurture fellow believers in the obedience of faith and to proclaim the Gospel of God’s grace to the world. These three purposes are accomplished under the oversight of a plurality of local Elders and Deacons. Church leaders are not intended to do the works of ministry on behalf of the people of God (EPH. 4:11-14). (Elders are called “overseers,” not “over doers!”) Instead, leaders are to use their offices to equip God’s people to provide the ministry as a life-style. (1THESS. 4:9- 12).
A Plurality of Local Elders
“Be examples to the flock…” (1 PETER 5:3) The most important ministry of Elders is to be examples of sound doctrine in action. This is why the qualifications for church Elders (1 TIM. 3:1-15) are based on a man’s ability to manage his own household well. In the context of that life example, through ministry hospitality, each Elder is best able to teach sound Bible doctrine.
The Role of Deacons
Deacons are ministers of mercy. They have been commissioned, under the oversight of our Elders, to respond to needs on behalf of our church. They serve God in many ways — opening and closing facilities, cleaning up, organizing the rest of us to serve, etc, but their primary role is to identify needs and fill them by organizing Productive Fellowship activities and dispersing financial assistance. If you have a need, or are aware of a need, please contact us.
The Importance of the Christian Household in the Local Church
The Christian household is the primary embassy of the kingdom of God and the primary training ground for local church leadership. It is also the social and economic vehicle God has chosen to plant new local churches at home and abroad. As such, it becomes strong by exerting itself in a life-style of ministry. Unfortunately, for most families in the developed nations, the home has become a place to go when nothing else is open. Responsibilities that God intended to be fulfilled by each household, such as child-training, education and hospitality, have been transferred out of the home into churches, schools and businesses. In the churches Sunday schools, youth groups, and other age-segregated programs attempt to do for families what God intended each household to do for its own members. This further weakens families by allowing them to avoid the very activities that would make them strong and effective for God. Families are restored by returning obediently to their responsibilities.
Our Preachers’ “College” for Emerging Church Leaders
New leadership for a reproducing local church emerges from among the godly men of each new congregation. Though Bible college and seminary can be helpful, formal training alone cannot satisfy all the Biblical qualifications for church leadership (see 1 TIM. 3:1-7). The basic qualifications are developed simply by “walking with the wise” through a season of participation in one’s local church: learning how to manage one’s own household well, faithfully attending the Sunday gatherings, building up the body in love, participating in prayer, Bible study and evangelism, and walking in fellowship with the current leadership. To facilitate this process we have established LEADERSHIP INSTITUTE, a weekly study group for aspiring church leaders. Christian men (ages 18 and up) who have been members of HF for over a year (or who are ministry students) and who have a holy desire to study and teach God’s Word in some public ministry are invited to apply at the end of each quarter. The pulpits of our four area congregations are filled each week by seasoned members of this study group, and from their number our new church leaders normally emerge.
Why does HF Focus so much on Maturing Husbands and Fathers?
At HF we hold the “complimentarian view” of gender roles. Men and women are wonderfully different by God’s design. A man is the head of his wife just as Christ is the head of the church and God the Father is the head of Christ. There is nothing demeaning or abusive about these complementary roles of loving headship and respectful submission. We teach that men need to be respected by the women in their lives in order to play their strategic part in God’s plan for the good of all. Likewise, women need to be loved, cherished, protected and provided for by the men in their lives in order to play their parts in God’s plan for the good of all. In this, God is not putting women down, but He is raising men up for the good of all. We find in Scripture and in practical experience that most men by reason of their role in the home can influence their families in ways that most wives and children are unable. When a family man is converted he often brings his entire household with him to Christ. Sometimes his entire social network as well. As he grows in grace and becomes more the man his wife and children have always needed and wanted him to be, he begins to provide the ministry and leadership his family so badly needs. Therefore, the best and most biblical thing we can do for the salvation and pastoral care of women and children in any community is to save the souls, inspire the hearts and inform the minds of all the men in their lives. Truly Christian men turn faithfully to serve their wives and children as God intended— and in doing so our evangelism succeeds, our church culture becomes all the more exciting for men and loving toward women, and our entire local church thrives under the Lordship of Jesus!